Supreme Leader and Mother River

  On April 24, 2018, the supreme leader was inspecting the Three Gorges Dam. Source: Xinhua News Agency

  CCTV News:"The Yangtze River is the mother river of the Chinese nation and must be protected."

  On April 24, 2018, the supreme leader went deep into Hubei to inspect the ecological environment around the Three Gorges Project and the dam area. He looked up and saw the majestic dam, the rippling river and the lush river bank.

  The Yangtze River, the cradle of the Chinese nation, is the longest river in China and our mother river. For thousands of years, the Yangtze River basin has been linked by water, connecting the upstream and downstream, the left and right banks and the main tributaries, forming a large economic and social system. In addition, the Yangtze River is an important link between the Silk Road Economic Belt and the 21st Century Maritime Silk Road.

  For a long time, the development and planning of "Mother River" has always touched the heart of the supreme leader.

  Play the "Yangtze River Concerto"

  Chart: Schematic Diagram of the Yangtze River Delta Region Source: Xinhua News Agency

  From Bashan Shushui to Jiangnan Water Town, the Yangtze River basin is outstanding, edifying the elites of past dynasties and nourishing countless people.

  As early as when he was working in Zhejiang, the Supreme Leader put forward the "Eighth Five-Year Strategy" in view of the natural geographical advantages of Zhejiang’s long delta, explicitly demanding that "Zhejiang’s geographical advantages should be further developed, and Shanghai should take the initiative to participate in exchanges and cooperation in the Yangtze River Delta region, so as to continuously improve the level of opening up at home and abroad".

  The Supreme Leader emphasized that jumping out of Zhejiang to develop Zhejiang is an inevitable requirement for Zhejiang’s economic development and a strategic choice for Zhejiang to achieve greater development from a high starting point.

  Under the care and guidance of the supreme leader, Zhejiang Province plans to build an industrial belt and urban agglomeration around Hangzhou Bay, actively promotes regional coordinated development, and accelerates the rise of the Yangtze River Delta urban agglomeration led by Shanghai.

  Schematic diagram of the Yangtze River Economic Belt Source: China Government Network

  For more than a decade, the pace of Zhejiang’s comprehensive integration into the Yangtze River Delta has never stopped. In the Yangtze River Economic Belt, capital, commodities, technology, talents and other elements from Zhejiang are surging. From the Yangtze River Delta to the Yangtze River Economic Belt, Zhejiang took the initiative to connect and actively integrate, and played a powerful and distant "Yangtze River Concerto".

  Shanghai Free Trade Zone Waigaoqiao Container Terminal Source: Xinhua News Agency

  Plan the Yangtze River estuary

  The rolling Yangtze River is a golden waterway, and Shanghai, located at the mouth of the Yangtze River, undoubtedly plays a leading role in the cooperation and exchanges in the Yangtze River Delta region.

  In May, 2007, the Supreme Leader had just been working in Shanghai for two months. When planning the future development of Shanghai, he put forward that we must focus on "four in". One of them is to "think and plan in the overall arrangement of the country for the regional development of the Yangtze River Delta".

  In August of the same year, the Shanghai Municipal Committee held a study meeting of the Standing Committee. At the meeting, the top leaders pointed out that it is necessary to adhere to regional coordinated development, promote regional cooperation, consciously put the service of the Yangtze River Delta in a more prominent position, strengthen cooperation and exchanges between Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, give play to the role of the market in allocating port and shipping resources, and strive to build a Yangtze River Delta port group with clear levels, reasonable division of labor and complementary advantages; Actively promote the construction of the "golden waterway" of the Yangtze River, and make greater contributions to serving the Yangtze River basin, serving the whole country, and promoting the coordinated development of the East, China and the West.

  Look at the overall situation and plan for the future.

  Under the leadership of the supreme leader, Shanghai has actively participated in and actively served the development of the Yangtze River Delta region and the construction of the Yangtze River Economic Belt for more than a decade, setting up a free trade zone, deepening reform, expanding opening up and building channels.

  During the "Thirteenth Five-Year Plan" period, Shanghai will promote the landing of major projects and realize multi-point connection and organic integration with the comprehensive transportation network of the Yangtze River Economic Belt; Strengthen the opening and cooperation of river basins and establish a cooperation mechanism for customs clearance in the Yangtze River Economic Belt; Enhance innovation ability and promote regional industrial transformation and upgrading.

 

  On July 21, 2013, the Supreme Leader visited Wuhan. As soon as he got off the plane, he came to Yangluo Container Port Area of Wuhan Xingang in the rain. Source: Xinhua News Agency

  Visit the port area along the Yangtze River in the rain.

  Since assuming the post of general secretary, the supreme leader has braved the severe cold and summer heat to inspect the Yangtze River basin many times, held symposiums, reviewed relevant plans, and deployed and implemented the strategy of the Yangtze River Economic Belt.

  It was an unusual summer-in July of 2013, a torrential rain came unexpectedly in Xingang, Wuhan, and the Yangtze River became more and more misty.

  As soon as the supreme leader got off the plane, he braved the rain and went straight to Yangluo Container Port Area in Wuhan Xingang, located on the north bank of the Yangtze River. It rained heavily, and the accumulated water didn’t cross the foot. In the storm, he rolled up his trouser legs, held an umbrella and asked while watching. The shirt was wet by the rain, but the supreme leader still focused on the local production situation. He stressed that the Yangtze River basin should strengthen cooperation, give play to the role of inland navigation, and turn the whole basin into a golden waterway.

  Under the care and guidance of the supreme leader, in March 2014, "Building the Yangtze River Economic Belt by Relying on the Golden Waterway" was written into the Government Work Report. In September 2014, the State Council’s Guiding Opinions on Promoting the Development of the Yangtze River Economic Belt by Relying on the Golden Waterway was officially released.

  The Yangtze River Economic Belt starts from Shanghai in the east and reaches Yunnan in the west, covering 11 provinces and cities such as Shanghai, Jiangsu, Zhejiang, Anhui, Jiangxi, Hubei, Hunan, Chongqing, Sichuan, Yunnan and Guizhou, radiating about 600 million people and covering an area of about 2.05 million square kilometers, with GDP accounting for 45% of the national total. Promoting the development of the Yangtze River Economic Belt is an important regional development strategy of the country, and it is a new strategic chess game that is balanced vertically and horizontally and related to the coordinated development of the eastern, central and western regions.

  On April 26, 2018, the Supreme Leader hosted a symposium in Wuhan to further promote the development of the Yangtze River Economic Belt. Source: Xinhua News Agency

  Planning the future development of the Yangtze River

  January 5, 2016 is a milestone in the development history of the Yangtze River Economic Belt.

  Just after New Year’s Day, the mountain city in winter is warm in the cold. From January 4th to 6th, the Supreme Leader came to Orchard Port in Liangjiang New Area of Chongqing, walked to the dock front platform, inspected the Yangtze River shipping and port loading and unloading operations, listened to the construction of the shipping center in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River, and told operators, cargo ship owners and port planning and construction personnel to build, manage and operate the port well.

  On January 5, 2016, the Supreme Leader held a symposium in Chongqing to promote the development of the Yangtze River Economic Belt, pointing out the direction and setting the tone for the development of the Yangtze River Economic Belt: "At present and for a long time to come, we should put the restoration of the ecological environment of the Yangtze River in an overwhelming position, work together for great protection and not engage in great development."

  As a basin economy, the Yangtze River Economic Belt involves water, roads, ports, shores, production, cities, biology, wetlands, environment and other aspects. It is a whole and must be comprehensively grasped and planned.

  In March of the same year, the Political Bureau of the Central Committee held a meeting to review and approve the Outline of the Yangtze River Economic Belt Development Plan. In 2017, "Promoting the development of the Yangtze River Economic Belt with the guidance of joint protection and no development" was solemnly written into the report of the 19th National Congress.

  In 2018, in the spring and April, the green is full of Jingchu. The supreme leader crossed Jingzhou and entered Yueyang to develop the Yangtze River Economic Belt, further unified his thinking, and investigated whether the requirements of "jointly protecting and not developing" were put in place; Through on-the-spot investigation and classified guidance, it is proposed to correctly grasp the "five major relations" and push the development of the Yangtze River Economic Belt deeper.

  From Xizi Lake to Zhongnanhai, this affection for the mother river, the Yangtze River, has been lingering in the mind of the Supreme Leader General Secretary. In his mind, it bears the sustainable development of the whole eastern, central and western regions and the coordinated development of the whole Chinese land.

  The blueprint is clearer and the horn is louder.

  Under the leadership of the CPC Central Committee with the Supreme Leader as the core, we will protect and make good use of the golden waterway of the Yangtze River, build and develop the Yangtze River Economic Belt, and March forward toward the glorious other side of the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation. (Text/Yu Xiaoling)

Special feature on current affairs: 7 meetings in The Politburo Standing Committee (PSC) in 54 days, understanding the prevention and control of China epidemic and blocking war.

  On March 18th, the Supreme Leader presided over the The Politburo Standing Committee (PSC) meeting and delivered an important speech. This is the 7th The Politburo Standing Committee (PSC) Conference hosted by him since New Year’s Day. It was the first time in the history of the Party that seven meetings were held in a row in 54 days to deal with an unprecedented major public health emergency and to study the prevention and control of epidemic situation and the resumption of work. Through these seven meetings, we can clearly see how the supreme leader directed and deployed this epidemic prevention and control war.

Seven key meetings, leading the trend of war "epidemic"

  Since January 25th (the first day of the Lunar New Year), the The Politburo Standing Committee (PSC) Conference has been held with an average frequency of less than eight days. Through the seven meetings that have been held, we can see that the topics have changed and remained unchanged.

  From the cloud images of the key words of the seven meetings, we can see more clearly the main battlefield and main attack direction of this "epidemic". China is striving for the final and all-round victory in the fight against the epidemic, from confrontation to decisive battle.

  At the meeting on March 18th, the Supreme Leader pointed out that it is necessary to accurately grasp the epidemic prevention and control at home and abroad and the periodic changes in the economic situation.Adjust the focus of work and countermeasures according to the time and situation.This is also the principle that has always been adhered to at the previous seven meetings.

  "The string of strengthening epidemic prevention and control cannot be loosened, and all work in economic and social development must be grasped." "To strengthen the prevention and control of the epidemic situation, we must be cautious from the beginning." "Do not relax, grasp the prevention and control work, and never let the hard-won epidemic prevention and control continue to reverse to a good situation." At the seven meetings before and after, the Supreme Leader took Wuhan and Hubei as the main battlefields of the country, strengthened classified guidance to other provinces, and always dominated the direction of the "epidemic" war.

The battle of the decisive place and the important place

  The Supreme Leader said: "Since the outbreak of the epidemic, the CPC Central Committee has clearly demanded that people’s life safety and health should be put first. All prevention and control measures taken by the CPC Central Committee should first consider doing their utmost to prevent more people from being infected and save more patients’ lives as much as possible." This is also the clear idea of the 7 The Politburo Standing Committee (PSC) Conferences to guide the defense of Hubei and Wuhan.

  Do your best to prevent more people from being infected.This requires extraordinary measures to control the source of infection and cut off the route of transmission. The first six meetings took "admission" as an important topic. On January 25th, it was put forward that "all confirmed patients should be treated in time"; on February 3rd, it was made clear that "centralized hospitals should be built and put into use as soon as possible"; on February 12th, it was put forward that "all accounts receivable should be collected, all treatment should be done, and the rate of treatment should be improved"; and on February 26th, it was required to "consolidate the results of investigation and treatment", and Wuhan, Hubei Province finally closed the "faucet" for the spread of the epidemic. On March 18th, when the 7th meeting was held, Wuhan, Hubei Province ushered in the clearing of three new confirmed cases, new suspected cases and existing suspected cases.

  Save as many patients’ lives as possible.The most important thing is to try our best to treat serious cases. From January 25th, it was required to "concentrate severe cases in designated medical institutions with strong comprehensive strength for treatment", on February 12th, it was required to "speed up the transformation and expansion of designated hospitals and increase the supply of severe beds", and on March 4th, it was proposed that "all severe patients should be concentrated in high-level designated hospitals for treatment", and special arrangements were made for each of the seven meetings. As of March 18th, the number of severe cases in Hubei has dropped from more than 10,000 during the peak hours to 2,274.

  Next, don’t be paralyzed, don’t be tired of fighting, don’t relax, and never say success lightly until you win the whole game.

Grasp both hands and win a double victory

  When he presided over the The Politburo Standing Committee (PSC) meeting on February 12th, the Supreme Leader said that it is both a great war and a big test to make overall plans for epidemic prevention and control and economic and social development. The seven The Politburo Standing Committee (PSC) conferences made key arrangements on how to meet the challenge and take the exam.

  Coordinating the promotion of epidemic prevention and control and economic and social development is being carried out in accordance with the principle of "scientific prevention and control, precise policy". Taking the two meetings of the Standing Committee of the Political Bureau as an example, the meeting on February 12 proposed thatTaking the county as a unit,Determine the risk levels of different counties, and formulate differentiated prevention and control strategies by region and level. The meeting on March 18 proposed thatTake the province as a unitPromote the recovery of economic and social order. The basic unit of prevention and control has been expanded from county to province, which shows that with the situation of epidemic prevention and control continuing to improve, China is expanding the achievements of epidemic prevention and control, and striving to lead the national economic and social development into a normal track at an early date.

Help each other in the same boat and fight the epidemic together

  At the beginning of the "epidemic" in China War, the Supreme Leader made it clear that,China not only safeguards the life safety and health of the people in China, but also safeguards the life safety and health of the people in the world.Strengthening international cooperation in epidemic prevention and control is an important manifestation of giving play to China’s role as a responsible big country and promoting the building of a community of human destiny.

  Just when China has stepped out of the most difficult and arduous stage, the epidemic broke out in many countries and places, and the epidemic spread abroad, which brought new challenges to China’s epidemic prevention and control and economic development.

  On the day of The Politburo Standing Committee (PSC) meeting on March 18th, 31 provinces, autonomous regions and municipalities and Xinjiang Production and Construction Corps reported 34 newly confirmed cases, all of which were confirmed cases imported from abroad. At the meeting that day, the supreme leader stressed that it is necessary to clearly see the complexity and seriousness of the epidemic situation at home and abroad. The meeting of the day actively cooperated, shared experiences, provided assistance, and made arrangements for contributing China’s strength to the international war "epidemic". At the same time, it requestedImplement the key tasks of external defense input.

  Practice the initial mission in the war and hand over the qualified answer sheet in the big exam. The common war "epidemic" is still going on. In an extraordinary period, the The Politburo Standing Committee (PSC) series of meetings from the beginning of the New Year’s Day will continue to lead the "epidemic" of this war.

  Producer: Shen Yong

  The main author is Gong Xuehui and Yu Zhenyi.

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Script of "Love on the Plateau" in Military Documentary


  Foreword: She is a gentle woman who cares for the physical and mental health of border guards with knowledge and love. She is a strong-willed woman who has traveled thousands of miles in border defense. In Ali, Xizang, the clear spring of Shiquan River and the clear holy lake, she spent eight years with her. Distant frontier defense, respectable soldiers. This issue of Military Documentary broadcasts Love on the Plateau.

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  [Subtitle: Ali Plateau in Northern Tibet in May 2007]

  Ali region in Tibet is located in the northern part of the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau, with an average elevation of more than 4,500 meters. It is known as the "roof of the world", and the hill border defense company stationed in Ali Plateau is one of the most remote border defense companies in the interior of the whole army. It can be called an "Xue Hai Island" with endless snow and ice all the year round.

  This is the first patrol mission carried out by the border defense company after the mountain was cut in May this year. There is a seasonal checkpoint near the border in the hill border defense company. When you get there, you have to climb over Daban, which is more than 5,000 meters above sea level. On the way, the road is dangerous and glaciers are densely covered, and sometimes you can only climb up by dragging your horse’s tail. One woman in the team is particularly eye-catching. Her name is Wang Rui, and she is a female military doctor who has been conducting mental health education and counseling in extra-high altitude areas for many years. On this day, she will patrol with the team to ensure the safety of officers and men. For eight years, she has been running around the border line with the worst conditions and the most bitter environment in the whole army.

  Wang Rui’s indissoluble bond with the plateau began when she married a border guard. At that time, her husband Tao Yu was a company commander of the border guard company. Careful Wang Rui learned from her husband that the extremely harsh natural environment on the plateau has a great influence on the mental health of the officers and men who are guarding the mountain. In some outposts, the mountain closure period is as long as eight months every year. The officers and men face those familiar faces every day, and they can’t see the green all the year round, which is easy to cause psychological problems such as anxiety and irritability. Some officers and men often fight over trivial matters.

  In 1999, Wang Rui, who graduated from the Fourth Military Medical University majoring in psychology, was determined to change this situation. He volunteered to defend the Karakorum Plateau with harsh natural conditions, but the hard life made Wang Rui, who had just entered the plateau, sleepless all night.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  The wind was particularly ugly. The wind was so ghostly that it was particularly cold when sitting in a dark room. When I went up, it was not summer when we were relieved, but when I went up, the house was cold and cold, and I sat there in a coat. Oh, my tears fell.


  Severe altitude sickness made Wang Rui’s fingernails blue and his lips purple. Being in the plateau, she personally experienced the hardships of working in the plateau.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  In the process of getting along with them in the past, they helped me, took care of me, cared about me like brothers, and seemed to have this feeling with them, which was better than the affection of comrades-in-arms, hoping to do something for them.

  Since then, Wang Rui has used the opportunity of visiting doctors to conduct mental health research on the officers and men who are on the defensive. Wang Rui has been to Shenxianwan post, the highest altitude in the whole army, for 23 times, sometimes for several days. Shenxianwan post is 5,380 meters above sea level. Anyone who comes here will have a strong altitude sickness. Every time Wang Rui will have dizziness, leg weakness, vomiting and even bile. The more than 180 steps leading to the fairy bay sentry tower and the five-star red flag fluttering in the wind on the sentry tower witnessed the dozens of touching days and nights that Wang Rui spent there.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  Sometimes I feel that I can’t keep going, but I have survived with my teeth, and I have persisted.

  Through joining the frontier defense company, Wang Rui collected tens of thousands of words of first-hand information about the mental health of frontier defense soldiers, but statistics is a headache. These questionnaires and data are all analyzed by hand.

  Health worker in a certain unit of Ma Xiaohong Nanjiang Military Region.

  Every night is basically until four or five o’clock, and then there may be thousands of groups of statistical data in a day, and then they are classified and summarized to get a result.

  Shang Guoping, a health worker in a certain unit of the South Xinjiang Military Region.


  I said Dr. Wang should rest. Dr. Wang said, No, Xiao Shang, I can’t finish this work. I feel sleepy. Then continue to work until six o’clock until the data is sorted out.

  Under the influence of altitude sickness, Wang Rui has a splitting headache because of excessive brain use.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  Experts from 18th Hospital and our teachers from Medical University told me that Xiao Wang is doing statistics on the mountain, so you should pay attention to it. It hurts your brain.

  Although the work is very hard, the concern of the border guards and soldiers for her has filled Wang Rui with warmth and given her the courage to persevere.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  When I stayed up late, our soldiers stood guard and sent me a text message, saying that my sister saw you stay up so late and didn’t have a rest. We looked very distressed. You should rest early. This is the concern our soldiers gave me.

  In March 2005, with the support of the leaders of the Frontier Defense Corps, Wang Rui founded the first "plateau psychological consultation website" of the whole army-Karakorum psychological guardian network, where frontier defense officers and soldiers can communicate with her through the online "intimate sister chat room". Over the past two years, Wang Rui has answered more than 2,000 psychological counseling questions through the Internet.

  Soldiers of a certain unit of Zhang Peng Nanjiang Military Region

  Dr. Wang taught us many methods of self-adjustment to relieve stress, such as empathy, self-reflection and environmental transformation. These methods not only helped us release the pressure in our hearts, but also made communication between our comrades easier, promoted our unity and benefited us for life.


  Soldiers of a certain unit of Chen Peng Nanjiang Military Region

  I feel very warm, like chatting with my relatives, without any pressure. We are all willing to tell her what we feel, and she is also willing to help us.

  Wang Rui is sincere and warm-hearted Xiaowan, a soldier, is an orphan. He was brought up by his uncle and had poor self-care ability. In May last year, my uncle died, leaving him in despair. At this time, he met Wang Rui.

  Wan Zonghua, a soldier of a certain unit of the South Xinjiang Military Region

  She poured me a cup of hot water, because I usually don’t pay attention to my image and my clothes are dirty, so she picked up a towel and wiped my clothes clean.

  Wang Rui’s move made Xiaowan feel that in addition to his uncle, there are people who care about themselves as much as their relatives. Moreover, every word of Wang Rui came into his heart.

  Wan Zonghua, a soldier of a certain unit of the South Xinjiang Military Region

  Everything she said was true, practical and, above all, practical, so everything she said to me was branded in my heart.

  When he left the army, Wang Rui heard that Gao Bin, a young soldier who had just joined the army, was crying and clamoring to go home. Wang Rui wants to talk to him.

  Soldiers of a certain unit of Gao Bin Nanjiang Military Region


  When I first arrived at the office, I saw a lieutenant colonel looking for me. Such a big leader looked for me and didn’t know me. At that time, I was particularly scared. Then Dr. Wang smiled kindly and asked me to sit down. I was a little afraid. She said, It doesn’t matter. You can call me Dr. Wang or my sister. I felt very kind when I heard this sister.

  It turns out that Gao Bin is the only child in the family. Before he joined the army, he was a spoiled baby in the family. When he came to the army, the harsh conditions of cold and hypoxia and the intense training every day made him a little unbearable. He wanted to go home with all his heart, and it was of no help to talk to the leaders and persuade the villagers. In order to make Gao Bin overcome his homesickness, Wang Rui came to see him whenever he had the chance.

  Soldiers of a certain unit of Gao Bin Nanjiang Military Region

  I also gradually trusted her, and when I got bolder, I told her some of my ideological burdens and psychological problems at that time.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  I regard them as my own children. I said that they are not much different from my children in age. I also hope to help them more and give them some love.

  In order to alleviate Gao Bin’s homesickness, Wang Rui invited him to his home.

  Soldiers of a certain unit of Gao Bin Nanjiang Military Region

  I did mumble at that time, and then I said I wanted noodles. She said she asked me what kind of meat I wanted. I said I wanted to eat an egg. She said that she would make you an egg persimmon noodle? I said yes. I felt very deeply at that time, and I have never forgotten it now.

  Gao Bin is no longer clamoring to go home. Last year, he became the network administrator of thy company. When frontier officers and soldiers encounter difficulties, Wang Rui always helps them wholeheartedly and really solves problems. Ran Qiangsheng, deputy battalion commander of a frontier defense battalion, will never forget that it was Wang Rui who made him stand confidently on the plateau again. One day in 2004, when Ran Qiangsheng participated in the cadre training, his heart suddenly quickened and he was dizzy. He fell to his knees and could not stand up.


  Ran Qiangsheng was the deputy battalion commander of a certain unit of the South Xinjiang Military Region.

  Wherever I go, I am absolutely carried away, and I can’t bend that knee. If I bend it, my legs will kneel down. After kneeling down, he won’t be able to work hard all over his body, including any part of his hand, giving people the feeling that he is simply collapsed to the ground. That feeling was extremely painful at that time, very painful,

  Since then, Ran Qiangsheng has been seeking medical treatment everywhere, and he has not been diagnosed in several big hospitals such as Zhengzhou and Chengdu. The strange disease with unknown cause made him very desperate. When Wang Rui was chatting with Ran Qiangsheng, he accidentally learned about his illness.

  Ran Qiangsheng was the deputy battalion commander of a certain unit of the South Xinjiang Military Region.

  At that time, I didn’t expect her to find out this matter at all, because I thought that I had passed the examination in such a big hospital, and there was no good result for me. I just wanted to chat casually, but I didn’t expect that she attached great importance to it.

  Wang Rui had no idea about this strange disease that Ran Qiangsheng suffered. She consulted medical materials according to the symptoms of Ran Qiangsheng, and then compared them one by one. Everything comes to him who waits. After nearly two months of examination and treatment, she finally found out that Ran Qiangsheng’s disease may be hypokalemia. In the treatment, Wang Rui insisted on accompanying Ran Qiangsheng every day and caring for him like his own relatives.

  Ran Qiangsheng was the deputy battalion commander of a certain unit of the South Xinjiang Military Region.

  I’ve been drinking the potassium chloride liquid in front of me, and I think our drug store is almost finished by me. Later, she began to look for it again, and the relatively granular one, and then began to look for it. I found out that there was a traditional Chinese medicine, potassium chloride release tablets, but it was not available in Shiquanhe at that time, and she looked for this medicine in various hospitals.

  Under the treatment of Wang Rui, Ran Qiangsheng’s body gradually recovered and miraculously stood up. Every time I go down the mountain, careful Wang Rui remembers to bring him medicine.

  Ran Qiangsheng was the deputy battalion commander of a certain unit of the South Xinjiang Military Region.


  She can figure out how many pills I have in front of me and how many boxes I have to take for how long. I told you she was so careful//that she got me back on my feet.

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  Wang Rui’s love for border guards and soldiers is like a trickle. On the training ground, the soldier didn’t have time to get the medicine, so she sent the health care medicine and skin cream to the soldier. When the company went out for training, she went out early and returned late with the soldiers on her back.

  Every time she left the company, Wang Rui never forgot to bring a sewing kit to help the soldiers sew clothes. When she saw that the collars of the soldiers were leaking, she used her allowance to buy wool and hook the collars for the soldiers. On the holidays, she did not forget to send greeting cards to the soldiers.

  In order to bring more joy to the border guards, Wang Rui, who is in his early forties, also took the initiative to learn to dance and sing, and used the opportunity of visiting doctors to perform for officers and men. On the eve of "August 1st" last year, the troops went to the Reqiong checkpoint at an altitude of more than 4,500 meters to express their condolences. The living conditions there are very difficult, and the officers and men can’t eat fresh vegetables for many years, so they have to use horses to carry the draft. Wang Rui offered to take part in the performance.

  Political Department Officer, Ali Military Division, Nanjiang Military Region, Luo Le

  At that time, the leader of our whole performance team made it a rule that only actors could go up, but actresses could not go up. But she urged to get on the checkpoint.

  The nine officers and men at the checkpoint seldom see outsiders at ordinary times. After the performance, they are still reluctant to go back. At high altitude, you have to slow down when you walk, not to mention a dance with great movements. You can see the eager eyes of the soldiers. Wang Rui resisted the symptoms of dizziness and nausea and danced a Tibetan dance.

  Political Department Officer, Ali Military Division, Nanjiang Military Region, Luo Le

  At that time, after she danced a Tibetan dance with a soldier, Dr. Wang fainted because of the high altitude and lack of oxygen.

  After eight years of plateau life, more than 2,900 days and nights, Wang Rui’s footprints have traveled all over the Karakorum Mountain and the hot land of more than 500,000 square kilometers in the northern Tibet Plateau.

  Platoon leader of a certain unit of Yang Min Nanjiang Military Region.

  Dr. Wang once told me that although Ali is far away, the sky in Ali is blue and the mountains in Ali are high, but the soldiers in Ali are the cutest. I will never forget this sentence.

  Wang Rui used his knowledge and love to solve the psychological "knot in one’s heart" and relieve the ideological "burden" for the officers and soldiers, so that everyone’s ability to adapt to the harsh natural environment, self-control of irritable personality and release psychological pressure were significantly enhanced. The incidence of psychological problems of frontier officers and soldiers at high altitude decreased significantly. Wang Rui’s army has not had an accident caused by psychological problems for five consecutive years.

  However, Wang Rui, who has been guarding the plateau for a long time, has little time to take care of his family.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  My child told me that he didn’t eat again, or he usually encountered some contradictions in his interaction with his classmates. I was also very anxious and sad. But sometimes there is nothing I can do, and I really can’t take care of it. After all, you said that when you come out like this, it will be thousands of miles away, and a separation will be several months.

  My son Tao Ye has been in the third grade, but Wang Rui spent very little time with his children. As soon as Tao Ye turned one year old, he was sent back to his hometown in Henan. The child missed his mother, so he showed the video taken by Wang Rui to the children. When the children saw his mother on TV, they went straight into the TV and sat on the ground crying loudly.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  I think if it was before I stepped onto the plateau, I knew that I had worked so hard and sacrificed so much after I stepped onto the plateau, maybe I didn’t have the courage to step down like this.

  This unique emotional connection between Wang Rui and her mother lasted for ten years, and then she returned to her parents’ side to cultivate. Every time she saw her mother packing the red suitcase, she was particularly sensitive, because the children knew that her mother was going up the mountain again.

  Tao Yu Wang Rui’s husband

  Once, his mother left home and went up the mountain. At the scene, I saw that the little guy didn’t shed tears when he saw him off. As a result, he went back to the house and cried. I said that the child had grown up. It turned out that when he was a child, he began to cry when he saw his mother packing, and it made his mother feel bad in front of him. Now, when he grew up, he knew that this might have a negative impact on his mother, so he consciously stopped crying in front of his mother.

  Now, what makes Wang Rui proud is that his son Tao Ye, who is in the third grade in Kashgar, never lets his mother worry too much. He is already a self-reliant child who can wash clothes and cook.

  Cultivate Wang Rui’s son

  I don’t need her to turn on the water. I carry four pots by myself and don’t let her carry them. When cooking, I’ll help her pick vegetables, serve rice and serve bowls, so that she can do less work and have more rest.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  From the bottom of my heart, I feel that as a wife, a mother is incompetent. I didn’t take good care of my husband and I didn’t give him more maternal love for my children.

  It is common for vehicles to have accidents because of high mountains and high roads in snowy plateau. Since having a son, Tao Yu and Wang Rui have taken different cars every time they go up and down the plateau. They want to leave a relative for their children in case of any accident.

  Tao Yu Wang Rui’s husband

  During the mission on the mountain, she got on another car, and I got on this car. It was a psychological cooperation and a tacit understanding.

  Married for twelve years and separated for twelve years, as a wife, Wang Rui has many regrets. Last year, her husband, who worked in the Southern Xinjiang Military Region, was seriously injured in a car accident on his way back from frontier investigation, but Wang Rui had just received the task of going up the mountain to defend. Hearing this news, her heart was like a knife, but when she thought of hundreds of recruits on the mountain, Wang Rui still gritted his teeth and went down the mountain.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  I followed my husband’s route down the mountain and went to the scene of the car accident to see the broken glass stubble on the ground. Don’t mention how uncomfortable I was at that time.

  During her husband’s hospitalization, Wang Rui couldn’t accompany her for a day. She told her husband on the phone that we are all old guards, so you should understand me.

  Tao Yu Wang Rui’s husband

  As border guards, it is our duty to do this kind of work. It is right for her to go up the mountain to perform tasks, and we will not blame her.

  The towering Karakorum Mountain and the Ali Plateau, with an average elevation of more than 4,500 meters, have only half the oxygen content in the air. Heavy mental work in the plateau hypoxia environment has done serious damage to brain tissue. Wang Rui, who has just entered his forties, has been dyeing his hair for several years. And every time she washes her hair, her hair falls off in large quantities.

  Wang Rui Head Nurse of Shiquanhe Medical Station in Nanjiang Military Region

  After washing my hair for half a basin, black hair is floating. Our colleagues all say that it looks scary when you wash your hair. Now I have very little hair, and now my hair seems to be less than one-third of what it used to be.

  Tao Ye Wang Rui’s son

  My hair used to be dark when I went up the mountain, but it was sparse when I went down the mountain, so the change was particularly great, so I also felt sorry for her.

  But on the one hand, it is the worry and concern of family members, and on the other hand, it is the expectation of brothers and comrades. As an old frontier guard, Wang Rui’s heart cannot be separated from the snowy plateau.

  Wan Zonghua, a soldier of a certain unit of the South Xinjiang Military Region

  Sister Wang moistens our hearts like the clear spring of Shiquan River, and purifies our hearts like the holy water of the holy lake.

  Pan Wujun, political commissar of a certain unit of Nanjiang Military Region

  She cared for the physical and mental health of our officers and men with sincerity, love and wisdom, and brought joy to the plateau and officers and men.

Editor: Cao Jin

Philippine athletes won the first gold medal in the country’s Olympic history and received 4.6 million yuan and a suite.

  Diaz of the Philippines in the final

  Overseas Network July 27th On the 26th local time, in the women’s weightlifting 55kg final of the Tokyo Olympic Games, Diaz of the Philippines won the championship with a total score of 224kg, winning the first gold medal in the history of the Olympic Games for the Philippines. After winning the championship, she won many awards from the government, parliamentarians and businessmen, including 35.5 million Philippine pesos (about 4.6 million yuan) and a house.

  According to the Philippine "Star" reported on the 26th, the Philippine government will reward Diaz with 10 million pesos, and businessmen Pan Jilinan and Ramon An will also reward Diaz with 10 million pesos each, plus 3 million pesos provided by Romero, deputy speaker of the House of Representatives, and 2.5 million pesos provided by Diaz’s hometown, making a total of 35.5 million pesos.

  In addition, she will also get a house belonging to Philippine Olympic Committee President tolentino in Daya City. (Overseas network Wang Xiluo)

National economic data released in May: China’s economy continues to improve steadily.

  Mao Shengyong, spokesman of the National Bureau of Statistics of China, said at a recent press conference that in May, China’s national economy continued to maintain a generally stable, stable and positive development trend, production demand was basically stable, employment continued to improve, prices rose moderately, the supply and demand structure and enterprise benefits continued to improve, and the endogenous driving force for economic growth continued to increase. Analysts pointed out that although the current world economy has picked up, there are still many uncertainties. In this context, China’s economy can continue to improve steadily, which not only reflects the correctness of China’s reform and opening-up measures and economic development ideas, but also brings confidence and positive energy to the world economy.

  There are many bright spots in economic operation

  In May this year, China’s economy once again continued its previous positive trend in key indicators.

  According to Mao Shengyong, the current economic operation mainly presents five characteristics:

  First, the industry grew steadily. The stability of economic operation is increasing day by day, 1-mdash; The added value of industrial enterprises above designated size increased by 6.9% in May; In May, the service industry production index rose by 8.1% year-on-year, 0.1 percentage point faster than last month.

  The second is the optimization of demand structure. From the consumption point of view, upgrading consumption keeps a relatively fast growth momentum. From the perspective of investment, although the overall investment growth rate has declined, the investment structure is being optimized.

  The third is the improvement of economic benefits. 1— The profit ratio of industrial enterprises above designated size in April was 1-mdash; 3.4 percentage points faster in March; The operating profit of the service industry above designated size increased by 8.4%, and the fiscal revenue and tax revenue also maintained rapid growth.

  Fourth, employment and prices are stable. In terms of employment, the national urban survey unemployment rate was 4.8% in May, down 0.1 percentage points from the previous month and the same period last year. From the price point of view, CPI rose by 1.8% year-on-year in May, maintaining a moderate upward trend. PPI rose by 4.1% in May, and remained at a reasonable level on the whole.

  Fifth, kinetic energy accelerates conversion. From the industrial point of view, in May, the added value of high-tech industries and equipment manufacturing increased by 12.3% and 9.4% respectively, and the growth rate was 5.5 and 2.6 percentage points faster than that of industries above designated size. From the perspective of service industry, the growth momentum of modern service industry is relatively good, 1-mdash; In April, the operating income of strategic emerging service industries increased by more than 18%.

  "Judging from the comprehensive production indicators, efficiency indicators, structural indicators and people’s livelihood indicators, China’s economy is generally stable and stable, and the development trend is continuing." Mao Shengyong said.

  Strong increase in domestic demand

  In the early morning of 14th, the Federal Reserve announced the second rate hike this year, which once again added uncertainty to the global economy. What impact does this have on China’s economy?

  Mao Shengyong responded by saying that in recent times, major developed economies have withdrawn from quantitative easing, international trade frictions have also intensified, and the imbalance and instability of the world economy have increased. At the same time, we must also see that the growth of major economies is relatively stable, and most economies have a good growth momentum. He said that the impact of the Fed’s interest rate hike on the world economy, including global capital flows, has been partially released. Judging from China’s past experience and reality, the impact of the Fed’s interest rate hike on China’s economy is limited in the short term.

  "Internally, the contribution of consumption to China’s economic growth has been stable at around 60% in recent years, and its basic role is getting stronger and stronger." Mao Shengyong said that in the internal and external demand contribution of economic growth in 2017, domestic demand contributed more than 90%, and domestic demand contributed more in the first quarter of this year. At this stage of China’s economic development, the expansion of consumption scale, the upgrading of consumption structure and the promotion of consumption contribution are inevitable development trends. Even if there is some trouble outside, it is no problem for China’s economy to maintain steady and rapid growth as long as the article on domestic demand is done well.

  Zhang Liqun, a researcher in the Macroeconomic Research Department of the State Council Development Research Center, also pointed out in an interview with this reporter that the latest data shows that consumption plays an increasingly important role in enhancing the resilience of China’s economic growth. Consolidating the basic position of consumption driving economic growth requires us to conform to the trend of consumption upgrading and let the demand be released continuously.

  Reform accumulates new kinetic energy

  Analysts pointed out that the key to observing China’s economy is to grasp the future evolution logic of supply-side reform, and 2018 is regarded as a crucial year for supply-side reform.

  According to the data released by the Bureau of Statistics, the micro leverage ratio continued to decline. At the end of April, the asset-liability ratio of industrial enterprises above designated size was 56.5%, down 0.7 percentage points year-on-year; The inventory of commercial housing continued to decrease. At the end of May, the area of commercial housing for sale nationwide was 560.1 million square meters, a decrease of 6.77 million square meters from the end of last month and a year-on-year decrease of 15.2%. Enterprise costs continue to decrease, 1-mdash; In April, the cost per 100 yuan of main business income of industrial enterprises above designated size was 84.52 yuan, a decrease of 0.21 yuan over the same period of last year; Investment in the short-board sector grew rapidly, 1-mdash; In May, the investment in ecological protection and environmental management, agriculture and public facilities management increased by 36.7%, 16.1% and 8.6% respectively, which was 30.6%, 10.0% and 2.5% faster than the total investment respectively.

  In Zhang Liqun’s view, whether the micro-leverage ratio continues to decline, or the investment in short-board areas grows rapidly, or the output of new energy vehicles increased by 56.7%, integrated circuits increased by 17.2%, and industrial robots increased by 35.1% in May, it means that the effect of supply-side structural reform in China is increasingly manifested.

  "The economic data in May performed well, reflecting that China’s economy is becoming more and more stable, which contains more factors of high-quality development. But at the same time, we should also see that China still has a lot of ways to climb the hill and cross the ridge to improve the quality of development. To this end, we must benchmark and compare with the requirements of high-quality development, further deepen the structural reform of the supply side, break down the institutional and institutional obstacles that restrict the improvement of the quality of economic development, and strive to consolidate the various foundations of high-quality development. Only in this way can we continue to accumulate momentum for sustained and healthy economic development. " Zhang Liqun said. (Reporter Wang Junling)

  People’s Daily Overseas Edition (03rd Edition, June 18, 2018)

Jiulong Temple, the tallest wooden tower in Asia in Sichuan, was burned, with no casualties.

  At 12 noon on December 10th, a sudden fire broke out in Jiulong Temple, a temple under construction in Mianzhu City, Sichuan Province, which destroyed the tallest wooden tower in Asia. As of press time, the latest report from the Mianzhu Municipal Government Information Office said that the fire had been extinguished at 4: 30 pm on the 10th. The fire caused the Daxiong Hall, the Ancestral Hall and the Pilufo Pagoda of Jiulong Temple to burn down, with an area of over 800 square meters and no casualties.

  A sudden fire broke out in Jiulong Temple in Mianzhu, Sichuan.

  At noon on December 10, a raging fire exploded the circle of friends of many Sichuan netizens. According to several videos taken by netizens on the spot, it was a temple that caught fire. In the video, the main hall of the temple and a tower building were swallowed up by the fire, with thick smoke rolling, and there were many houses around the temple.

  Beijing Youth Daily reporter found that the temple where the fire broke out was called Jiulong Temple, located in Xinlong Village, jiulong town, Mianzhu City, Sichuan Province. Ms. Wang, a staff member of Xinlong Village Committee, said that her family lived 200 meters away from Jiulong Temple. After the fire, she and many villagers went to the scene to help maintain order.

  Ms. Wang said that when she arrived at the scene, it was about 12: 30, only two halls were on fire, and the wooden tower was not on fire. However, because the fire in the hall near the wooden tower was too strong and there was wind at that time, "the wind blew the flame to the second floor on the wooden tower, and the tower was also on fire." She said that many villagers at the scene dialed 119, and firefighters arrived at the scene in about 20 minutes.

  The fire lasted four hours and was brought under control.

  At 2: 40 pm that day, the official Weibo of the Information Office of the People’s Government of Mianzhu City, Sichuan Province issued a notice saying that a fire broke out in Jiulong Temple, jiulong town, Mianzhu City at 12: 39 on December 10, 2017. No casualties have been found so far. The cause of the accident is under investigation and relevant information will be notified to the public in time.

  Ms. Wang told the reporter of Beiqing Daily that the temple on fire had not been built and was not open to tourists, so it was mostly staff. "Plus it was lunch time, many people went to eat, so no one was hurt. According to the builder, all the wood of this wooden tower is imported from Russia. Many people are lamenting that hundreds of millions of yuan will be burned after a meal. "

  The fire that engulfed two halls and a wooden tower was finally basically controlled after 4 hours. At 8: 08 pm on the 10th, the Information Office of Mianzhu Municipal Government issued a fire report saying that the fire had been extinguished at 4: 30 pm. The fire caused the Daxiong Hall, the Ancestral Hall and the Pilufo Pagoda of Jiulong Temple to burn down, with an area of over 800 square meters and no casualties.

  At present, a comprehensive investigation of the fire scene is being carried out to prevent subsequent accidents. The cause of the accident is under investigation.

  Reconstruction of Temple System after "5.12" Earthquake

  Ms. Wang told the reporter of Beiqing Daily that Jiulong Temple has always been called "Lingguan Building" in the local area. It is said that Lingguan Building was built in the Chongzhen period of Ming Dynasty, when Liu Yuliang, the prime minister’s first assistant, commemorated Tianguan. — Built by Wang Lingguan.

  Jiang Qi, who was born and raised in jiulong town, told the reporter of Beiqing Daily that the Lingguan Building was originally a Taoist building, but later it declined and was converted into a school. "I was a kindergarten there when I was a child. At that time, there would be incense at the entrance of the kindergarten."

  According to the official bulletin of Mianzhu City, Jiulong Temple is a Buddhist religious place approved by the religious department of Mianzhu City, located in jiulong town, Mianzhu City, 7 kilometers away from the urban area. The temples were completely destroyed in the "May 12th" earthquake in 2008, and reconstruction began in 2010.

  According to local media reports, the rebuilt Jiulong Temple covers an area of more than 20 mu and consists of seven golden halls. Among them, the wooden tower destroyed by the fire has been built for 8 years, adopting the traditional mortise and tenon structure in China, with a total height of 16 stories, which is known as "the tallest wooden tower in Asia".

  A photo of the Kowloon Temple Hall provided by Jiang Qi shows that the plaque of "Lingguan Building" is hung on the second floor of the two-story hall, and the plaque of "Ancient Wuyin Temple" is hung on the first floor. The roof of the hall is painted gold, and red lanterns are hung in front of the corridor. Now, the exquisite antique building in this photo has ceased to exist before it can meet the tourists.

  Text/reporter Li Zhuoya

Guangdong Marine Police cracked two cases of suspected smuggling of frozen products in succession.

  Recently, according to intelligence, Guangdong Yangjiang and Jiangmen Marine Police Bureaus successfully cracked two cases of suspected smuggling of frozen products, and seized two ships suspected of smuggling, involving seven people, and smuggled more than 110 tons of frozen products such as pig’s feet, pork bellies and beef tendons.

  ▲ The vessel involved in the seizure.

  On November 22nd, Guangdong Jiangmen Marine Police Bureau learned that a ship was suspected of smuggling in the waters near Taishan Mountain in Jiangmen. The bureau immediately assigned law enforcement boats patrolling the nearby waters to the target waters for investigation. After comparison and investigation, the law enforcement officers quickly locked a gray iron-clad ship without ship number information. After the law enforcement officers boarded the ship according to law, they found that the ship was carrying more than 80 tons of pig feet and pig bellies suspected of smuggling frozen products, with a total case value of about 4 million yuan. And the three crew members on board failed to provide legal proof of the source of the goods and relevant legal and valid documents of the ship, and were suspected of smuggling.

  ▲ Items involved in the seizure

  On November 22nd, Guangdong Yangjiang Marine Police Bureau seized a suspected ship in the sea area under its jurisdiction according to the tip-off, arrested four suspects on the spot, and seized about 30 tons of frozen products such as beef tendon. The crew on board were unable to provide legal documents and were suspected of smuggling.

  ▲ Identify the items involved.

  At present, two ships and frozen products involved have been detained according to law, and both cases are under further investigation. In the next step, Guangdong Marine Police will further strengthen its duties, continue to purify the public security environment in its jurisdiction, strike and prevent simultaneously, continue to maintain a high-pressure and severe crackdown on maritime crimes, and resolutely build a maritime security barrier in its jurisdiction. (Guangdong Marine Police Lian Jiamin Xu Yongzhen Zhu Jiawei)

Dad plays mahjong all day long, and his son wanders away from home. The literary diary touches his father.

  The shadow of a child

  I am wrong, but the way to correct it is not to scold! I am a human being, I have dignity, not an animal! I’ll just go, unforgettable loneliness.

  The shadow of a father

  Dad has been playing cards all afternoon, alas! I wonder if they will fight at night? At 1: 00 in the morning, the record broke, hehe, is playing cards so fun?

  The shadow of a family

  Dad won, 500 yuan! Gave me 40 yuan hush money, hehe! That’s dishonest, dad. You taught me badly! Dad rushed home in front of mom, and sure enough, he was fooled!

  At 0 o’clock in the morning on the 20th, a special figure appeared in the police station of Yubei Road in Shapingba District, which attracted people’s curiosity: he was a boy with a height of about 1.55 meters, a thin figure and stubborn eyes. Carry-on travel bag, bulging, as high as his knee, contains clothes all year round, two fruit knives and a diary.

  Xiao Fei, a 14-year-old boy from Leshan City, Sichuan Province, now lives in Shiqiaopu, Jiulongpo District, Chongqing, and has dropped out of school for half a year. His father, who was fond of playing mahjong, was recorded in the diary. In the afternoon, he was slapped by his father. As a result, he had his first trip to Chongqing since June this year.

  Why did you run away at an early age? The police found clues from the diary. The word "mahjong" was the most mentioned by the teenager, and his heart was solved by his father. As a result, a special scene happened. What happened on the day my son kept a diary? Can the father recall what he wanted to say to his son after reading the diary?

  Now, the Chongqing Evening News reporter has restored the scene from zero distance, hoping to help every parent, especially those who love to play mahjong, to understand the art of family communication between the lines of the diary.

  Sunny on August 6, 2016

  Today, I used my savings and bought a basketball, which was pretty good, but no one accompanied me. It doesn’t matter, I can play by myself, and I can play with my new friend, Fat Man. Dad has been playing cards all afternoon, alas! I wonder if they will fight at night?

  Mom’s shoes are broken. I bought a bottle of glue. I don’t know if it can be repaired well … …

  At 1: 00 in the morning, the record broke, hehe, is playing cards so fun?

  Without saying a word, my father kept his eyes on the diary for about 3 seconds and quickly turned to the second page.

  Sunny on August 9, 2016

  It was 10 o’clock last afternoon. In the afternoon, my father went to play cards and I went to buy food!

  Dad won, 500 yuan! Gave me 40 yuan hush money, hehe! That’s dishonest, dad. You taught me badly! Dad rushed home in front of mom, and sure enough, he was fooled! If it weren’t for me, I’d see dad still be embarrassed!

  Ha ha! At night, he went out again!

  My father smoked a mouthful of cigarettes and smoothed his hair. The smoke came out from his nose and he was still speechless.

  August 10, 2016 is fine

  I was scolded by my dad four times in total. I don’t want to talk back, because he is always my old man, but is it excessive to always do so?

  I am wrong, but the way to correct it is not to scold! I am a human being, I have dignity, not an animal! Have you ever respected my feelings? Will you put yourself in the other’s shoes? It’s always like this. I will hate you uncontrollably, understand? I am your son, not a toy for you to play with!

  I finally said it, so comfortable!

  Father read the diary carefully, his lips moved, but he didn’t make a sound. This detail is less than 2 seconds at best, and time seems to have stopped.

  August 19, 2016, Sunny and Pro-book

  Whatever, the big deal is to kick me out during the Chinese New Year.

  I don’t want to go on like this either. I’ll leave if it’s a big deal.

  I’ll just go, unforgettable loneliness.

  Until this stubborn life stops, my heart has been buried deep in the center of the earth! Miss thoroughly, buried deep in the center of the earth!

  I have never seen you clearly. Why are you like this … …

  Thank you. I feel that I am very happy and have learned a lot by summing up my experience of more than ten years in these months. Thank you … …

  My father took a few puffs of cigarettes and said, I never knew about his keeping a diary. In his words, we can see his remorse and regret for his son.

  On August 20, 2016, it was sunny and hot.

  Yes, I do! I was told about the wound today. She’s my own mother, XXX, and says I’m exactly like her. He blames the children for the last generation, no!

  For the next generation, this is what a father said to his son. Do you believe it? He never treats me like a normal child. He is always reasonable there. I won’t talk back. I went to the corner of the balcony and cried. I won’t let others see my fragile side! Please don’t blame me for your resentment against her!

  Our youth, where to go?

  Alas, my father sighed lightly, and his voice was thin and long.

  Interpretation of Diary and Hand Painting

  Look at the child’s inner world

  In addition to the diary, there are some hand paintings in the diary of Xiao Fei, and the style of painting is somewhat different. However, his talent to convey his painting potential is unbelievable from a 14-year-old boy who ran away from home, and he is a bit naughty.

  Yesterday, Chongqing Evening News reporter contacted Mr. Yang Yamou, who has more than 10 years of painting experience and is now engaged in TV column planning and advertising activity planning. After reading Xiaofei’s paintings, he said that guns, Guan Gong and dragons all represent masculinity, which is particularly tense and offensive in Xiaofei’s works, indicating that Xiaofei is eager for a kind of power to control himself and others. Judging from the lines and colors of his paintings, Xiaofei has some violent tendencies and a slightly violent personality.

  "He only achieved this level after two semesters of painting training, which shows that this kid is very talented. If you continue to cultivate, it is a good seedling for painting. " Yang Yamou said that many young people with artistic talent will have more delicate minds and unique ideas than their peers. If teachers and parents are not good at guiding, they will often behave particularly rebellious and disobedient in adolescence and become bad children in the eyes of the secular. He also met some people with talent for painting, and finally deviated from this road. The reason is that the mistake is often not in a teenager.

  Yuan Zhizhong, a professor at the School of Communication, Southwest University, said that the education of school, family and society is indispensable for a person to become a success. From Xiaofei’s situation, the education he received is lacking. "If a person wants to achieve something in art, then his cultural accomplishment is of great help to him in tasting art and learning and understanding. Campus life is also beneficial to a teenager’s physical and mental health. At present, it seems that Xiaofei should return to school. In the case of full communication between parents and teachers, let him continue to learn painting while following up cultural courses as much as possible. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is the best choice. "

  Reasons for leaving

  "I boiled the oil residue, and he shouted that the oil was terrible! Just gave me a lot of slap in the face. "

  When the Chongqing Evening News reporter saw Xiaofei, he was sitting in the reception chair of the police station in a contracted posture. Prior to this, the police gave him a bottle of 550 ml of mineral water, and Xiaofei drank it upside down in 20 seconds.

  Approaching, his baby’s fat face is a little dirty, with a pair of big eyes clear and stubborn, hoodie, ripped jeans and sneakers. At first impression, it’s hard to associate him with running away from home.

  He said that he is from Qianwei County, Leshan City, Sichuan Province. About 10 years ago, his parents divorced and he lived with his father and stepmother. In his mouth, he is a bad boy. He once peed on the table tennis table when he didn’t agree with his peers when playing table tennis, so that everyone couldn’t play. I once picked up an abandoned kayak with my friends and drifted for dozens of kilometers in the Minjiang River until the kayak was completely out of breath and was rescued by fishermen, but the fishermen’s fish were released by them … …

  "She (biological mother) works in a hotel in Aba Prefecture, Sichuan Province. Her life sometimes needs help from her father. I don’t have much contact with her." The policeman asked, and he answered, and his wandering eyes conveyed his exhaustion from home.

  He said intermittently that in June this year, when he didn’t want to study in the first grade, his parents took him to live in Shiqiaopu, Chongqing. Usually when his parents go to work, he watches TV, reads books and draws pictures at home. Seeing that he didn’t study, his parents began to teach him some life skills. He tried to buy food and cook. This time, the conflict with my father broke out, which is also related to this.

  "This afternoon, I was cooking oil at home, and I boiled the oil residue. He shouted that the oil was terrible! As I spoke, I was slapped a lot. I put on my clothes in front of him and came out. He saw me and said, don’t go back when you come out. " Xiaofei spoke out the contradiction with his father before leaving home, and the voice just fell and he breathed a sigh of relief.

  The police called the Chongqing Evening News reporter to another room and relayed other information that Xiaofei said about leaving home. In the afternoon, Xiaofei left home and walked penniless from Shiqiaopu to Shapingba. He was hungry and sleepy at night and fell asleep on the side of the road in a daze until he was discovered by the patrolling police.

  At the end of the speech, the police regretted that Xiaofei was 14 years old, which was the right age to go to school for education. Children who ran away at his age were comforted, but after reading Xiaofei’s diary and learning that he tried to change himself at home, he kept his father away from the mahjong table, which moved the police.

  "This kid writes a good diary and draws a good illustration. He is a material that can be made. It’s a pity that he dropped out of school long ago. " The police asked the Chongqing Evening News reporter to help Xiaofei return to school while bridging the emotional gap between the father and son.

  Father embarrassed

  "12 diaries, not counting the torn ones, 7 of which are about playing cards."

  At 1 o’clock in the morning, Xiaofei’s parents who received the police notice rushed to the police station.

  Father Xu Guihua, a truck driver, is 40 years old, about 1.65 meters tall, with a small belly, shaved hair on both sides, a tile in the middle and a gold necklace. Not far from Xiaofei’s sight, he sat down and talked with the police.

  The reporter noticed that Xiaofei stared at his father for about 3 seconds. Then, he embraced his hands, looked disdainful and looked away.

  "Don’t be angry with dad. Let him accompany you to eat something and go home to sleep later."

  "I’m not going back with him … …” In the face of police persuasion, Xiaofei couldn’t hold back her tears and fell to the ground along her face without crying.

  "Why?" The police asked.

  "Go back and be beaten again … …” He answered, putting down his hands around his chest, and I could see that he was relieved.

  The policeman turned to Lao Xu and said, "Don’t hit the kids again when you go back! If your old man hits you again, you can call the police! "

  Lao Xu paused, embarrassed expression, didn’t answer the words.

  Seeing this, the police took advantage of the situation to continue persuasion and took out a diary to show him.

  "I didn’t even know he had this diary … …” Lao Xu’s reaction was somewhat unexpected, and it was hard to hide his surprise.

  "12 diaries, not torn, 7 of which are talking about playing cards. On August 18 th, I vomited so many slots, and finally wrote: Love you forever, father! Love you forever, mother! " The policeman handed the diary to Lao Xu, and at the same time asked Xiao Fei to come and let the father and son communicate at close range.

  "Look at your baby’s diary, do you think about it?" The police threw words.

  Lao Xu hesitated for a few seconds and said, "I also know that kids are changing, and my education method is wrong … …” He hesitated, lowered his head and took a few deep breaths of smoke.

  Later, he closed the diary and handed it to his son.

  "The baby hasn’t eaten yet, so I’ll take him to eat … …” He put forward the idea of communicating with children alone.

  After completing the relevant formalities, Lao Xu and his son left the police station.

  Xiaofei deliberately kept a distance of three or four meters from his father, and the shadow was pulled very long under the illumination of street lamps.

  Mother circus

  "Although I also reconcile the contradictions between them, it is difficult to have immediate results."

  Yesterday afternoon, it was the day when Xiaofei and the Chongqing Evening News reporter agreed to meet. The location is Shiqiaopu, and he is standing in the warehouse where my aunt sells ceramic tiles.

  The Chongqing Evening News reporter sent him two books: History of Western Art and History of China Art, hoping that he could go further and further on the road of painting.

  Later, the Chongqing Evening News reporter contacted his stepmother, Ms. Cao.

  Reporter: If something happens, such as boiling oil residue before, how to divert it?

  Ms. Cao: His father just didn’t think it was done well, so he wouldn’t do it. Now the baby has a strong concept of face, which hurts his self-esteem. Plus he’s so old, hitting people can’t solve the problem. In the future, I will persuade him to stop hitting people.

  Reporter: Xiaofei told us that he likes you very much and never treats you as a stepmother. He also said that painting was encouraged by you, so he would prefer painting.

  Ms. Cao: Actually, I just did my mother’s duty. I often enlighten him, just as you like painting. Adults also have their own hobbies. You can tell me everything or talk to your father. You have to understand, my Lord.

  Reporter: He said that his father is obsessed with playing mahjong. From his words, we can feel that he is extremely dissatisfied with his father’s playing mahjong. He wants to make his father turn his attention away from the poker table and pay more attention to his family.

  Ms. Cao: His father is really obsessed with playing cards, and Xiaofei has expressed his dissatisfaction many times. I know this situation, although I also reconcile the contradictions between them, but it is difficult to have immediate results.

  Reporter: What are your plans for Xiaofei’s future growth?

  Ms. Cao: The family is going to wait for him to be older and find him a technical school to study, so that he can have a skill and find a job to support himself when he grows up.

  Father-son agreement

  "Xiaofei made a mistake and voluntarily admitted that his father stopped hitting people."

  At Xiaofei’s home in Shiqiaopu, we noticed two impressive details. Xiaofei took his father’s cigarette and handed it to the reporter. He was afraid that when the reporter didn’t hear him clearly, he picked up the remote control board and turned the voice down. Finally, he stressed that this was the hospitality courtesy taught by his mother.

  For the future, he said, he wants to engage in a career related to painting, or wait until he is older to study in a technical school and become a chef.

  What does Lao Xu think of his way of educating his son? When we saw him again, we began to answer.

  Lao Xu: I had never hit him before. When I arrived in Chongqing, Xiaofei still said that the old man had never hit him. He is getting more and more disobedient now, and I hate iron to produce. I want to try my hand, but it has no effect.

  Reporter: I ran away from home after hitting the baby. Do you think it has any effect?

  Lao Xu: (At first, he didn’t answer the words, as if they were on the tip of his tongue, and he finally spoke after a pause) In his hometown, he and his brother worked with the Mavericks to do a lot of things that made people angry, and I was even involved as an indemnitor.

  Reporter: Can you tell me about the fact that Xiaofei accused you of playing cards many times in his diary?

  Lao Xu: I’m a truck driver. After the National Day, my business is light. I usually play Chengdu Mahjong in 5 yuan with my neighbors and other drivers in my neighborhood. If I have business, I will definitely go to the sports car. I didn’t end up being so obsessed with mahjong that I didn’t earn money.

  The day after Xiaofei was taken home by his father, his aunt suggested that he help keep the stall and give him 1000 yuan salary for one month. Xiaofei and his parents accepted this proposal, which led to the above scene.

  How will father and son get along in the future? Lao Xu invited the reporter to be a witness. He signed a father-son agreement in Xiaofei’s diary. The content is roughly as follows: "In the future, both the father and Xiaofei will take the initiative to admit their mistakes, but only if the father stops hitting people."

  Chongqing Evening News reporter Wen Han john young Huang Yanchun’s photo report

Changes and characteristics of contemporary youth’s social needs

Chinese loved the noise of "Don’t laugh at the farmer’s wine and wine, and keep customers in good years." He was happy that "my parents heard about women and went out to help Guo; When Sister A heard that Sister Mei was coming, she should manage red makeup. When I heard that my sister was coming, I sharpened my knife and turned to pigs and sheep, which made my family and people happy, and my children and grandchildren were full of flowers around their knees. To sum up, their happiness and joy come from people, lovers, relatives and friends, who gain energy in interpersonal relationships and comfort in the community. All affection and honey can eliminate the sense of boundary, melt the sense of alienation and provide interpersonal support. However, the world can’t be static. The high-speed urban life and the rapidly changing life situation make the demand for individual motivation to pursue independence increasingly strong. In modern society, the age of atomization has arrived, and individuals are lonely and alienated. People begin to build clear boundaries in their busy lives, stressing the courtesy of "don’t bother others", and it is best to have the silence of "others don’t bother me". Stick to one’s own boundaries, respect others’ boundaries, be far away but not sparse, be near but not enter, young people like to establish boundaries, and oppose or even fear the "sticky interpersonal relationship" that others are willing to build.

Characteristics of Social Needs of Contemporary Youth

Sociologists call contemporary society a "society without opportunities", that is, with the alienation of interpersonal relationships in the network age, the traditional social relationships such as geography, academic affinity, career affinity, professional affinity and social affinity are weakening and disintegrating day by day. The social communication needs of contemporary youth are as follows:

One is social micro-demand and low interpersonal desire. Through the filter of the times, people tend to be "low-desire" under the heavy burden of life and work, and they are increasingly confused and confused about social interaction. Especially, some young people are more accustomed to using low-desire, inaction, decadence, lying flat and Buddhism to describe the internal low-motivation state. David McLelland, an American psychologist, believes that people have basic achievement motivation, power motivation and affinity motivation, and keep moving forward for the internal driving force. However, when human desires in modern society are over-amplified, people begin to pursue a "low-desire life". Low achievement motivation, so lying flat; Low power motivation, so they do not interfere with each other and are quiet with each other; Low social motivation, thus constructing boundaries. Just like the ancient Greek cynic school, it advocates returning to nature, being pure and lacking in desires, despising worldly wealth and wealth, and demanding that people should be self-restrained and independent. Young people’s social fear is not a psychological obstacle to social communication anxiety, but to avoid social interaction as much as possible, get rid of useless social interaction, and turn from face-to-face social interaction to direct "expansion" of the network.

Second, I like the sense of boundary and refuse to be socially sticky. Interpersonal boundary is the ability to realize "self" and "others". When a baby is five months old, he can clearly distinguish the relationship between "self" and "others" with his skin wrapped, thus establishing a physical boundary concept. Interpersonal boundaries are flexible and can also be psychologically differentiated. Young people refuse or even resent all the sticky interpersonal relationships that have no sense of boundaries, and remain alienated from them. They don’t like the joy of knowing each other, and they don’t want to be apart from where will you go. They have a weak attitude towards interpersonal relationships, and a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. Young people’s social fear scene is not worried about silence, but about being too familiar. Enthusiastic relatives and friends keep asking about your privacy, controlling parents interfere in your life excessively, and friends with unclear boundaries always intrude into your life, forcing you to care or force you to ask for your warmth.

Motivation of social demand change

The squeeze of the network community on the acquaintance society and the reorganization of daily life. Compared with the traditional acquaintance society, the interaction of strangers in cyberspace and the superposition of acquaintance society jointly construct daily life, and cyberspace reorganizes and constructs daily life and activates the matching daily life. "People can flock together, but they can’t flock together." "People are not as strong as cows, and they can’t walk like horses, but cows and horses can be used by people." Naturally, people can know how to achieve cooperation and how to make cooperation last in social interaction norms. Under the traditional social and natural economic conditions, in order to resist natural and man-made disasters and various risks, people need alliances, emotional alliances, economic alliances and relationship alliances. In traditional life, villages live in groups and help each other. Economic community is also a community of life, culture, relationship and emotion. In the community, people can seek their own development and self-circulation, and build a stable social structure and psychological structure. In the era when market rules and commodity exchange are not yet mature, acquaintance society has become the guarantee of intertemporal behavior through the ties of emotion and relationship. Acquaintance society needs the maintenance of interpersonal relationships, the communication between friends, the support of relatives and families, and the formation of relationships through fixed ceremonies, such as the human expenses of weddings and funerals, the courtesy of visiting relatives and friends during the Spring Festival, and meeting the exchange needs of human feelings according to the intimacy of relationships in the ripples of the differential pattern. This dense network of human feelings has formed a psychological support network and a social support network with relative security.When in trouble or in need of help, the human network shows its great vitality and support, which is the basic interpersonal needs of individuals and the necessary human capital. Relationships are formed by alliances, and emotions are borderless and sticky. This kind of explicit or implicit exchange is defaulted as intertemporal behavior, which does not need to be cashed in time, but can be saved into psychological accounts and emotional accounts, which is emotional dependence and human debt. However, with the rapid acceleration of social mobility, the closed social structure has rapidly disintegrated, and the open and pluralistic society has moved from the traditional etiquette system to the modern rule of law. Public services, social services and commodity services have improved the overall operating efficiency of society and weakened the traditional rules of life. In addition to the ubiquitous convenience, the online community allows people to get attention at any time and place, be heard and seen at any time, and never feel alone. The Internet provides more and more ways, and the society can still walk the world and even go further without relying on acquaintances.

Substitution change of reward in interpersonal relationship. "The ancients attached importance to friendship, while today’s people attached importance to profit." Interpersonal relationship has typical reward value, and constructing interpersonal network is an important strategy widely adopted to deal with uncertainty. According to the view of resource dependence, individuals can gain resources and manage uncertainty through the construction of interdependent networks. In order to better manage dependence, people need to adopt various strategies to establish relationships with others, such as cooperation, altruism, friendship, affection and even love. Man is a fragile reed. The sticky interpersonal relationship without a sense of boundary makes it unnecessary for social animals like human beings to live alone. In a thick relationship, they can gain security, satisfy intimacy, resist risks and overcome suffering. From basic physiological needs to developmental social needs and high-end psychological needs, they can be met by social interaction. We are always ready to socialize, which is a natural survival instinct. According to the social exchange theory, people’s interdependence needs returns and costs. The reward of relationship is the satisfying experience and goods obtained from contact with others, such as care, help and satisfaction. The cost is punitive, and it takes time, energy and emotion to maintain the relationship. Its formula can be shown as "result = return-cost". The smaller the cost, the higher the return, the more satisfactory the result and the stronger the durability of the relationship. According to the interdependence of relationships, everyone wants to enjoy the "surplus economy".At least make ends meet. The exchange of human beings exists widely in all communication relationships, "neighbors exchange favors, children exchange toys, colleagues exchange help, acquaintances exchange courtesy, politicians exchange concessions, discussants exchange views, and housewives exchange cooking skills". Digital transformation permeates all aspects of economy and society, which redefines productivity and production relations and reshapes lifestyle and interpersonal patterns. All exchange objects can be completely liberated from interpersonal relationships and all can be released into cyberspace. The mutual assistance of distant relatives and neighbors can rely on the smart community, and the interpersonal accommodation of the relationship network can be achieved through the Internet. The technical iteration and division of labor are no longer completely dependent on the "temperature" brought by the relationship, but instead of the "speed" and "effectiveness" of digitalization. Social relations are productive forces. In modern society, the division of labor is refined, digital empowerment is realized, and it is easy to do things in the palm of your hand, easy to do, and easy to do things in seconds. Therefore, problems solved by sticky interpersonal relationships can be solved instantly. Interpersonal exchange is influenced by social norms, and more reciprocal and fairer norms can last. However, interpersonal reward mechanism is often not reciprocal and fair. A high-ranking person refuses to attend class reunion, and a wealthy person avoids family reciprocity. Different resources determine their exchange status. The possession of resources affects interpersonal exchange. Once the exchange is not fair and equal, it is easy to terminate quickly, and a little social networking can often stop the loss quickly.

Modernity evolution of individual social micro-demand. Relationship is a choice, and modernization is also a trap. Relationship is a basic element and an important resource deeply rooted in history and culture. After a great change from tradition to modernity, people’s cultural value and personality gradually changed from the tradition of obeying authority to the modernity of equality, openness and independence. The novel Coming after 90s depicts a group of post-90s who live in the present and refuse authoritarianism and preaching. They are young, individualistic and free-minded. The authoritarianism, human feelings and face-saving, and harmonious relationship that adapt to the traditional culture are decreasing among the young people born in 1990s, while the openness, tolerance and pluralism that adapt to the needs of modernization are increasing, and the self-constructed independently by individuals is increasing, while the self-constructed interdependent is weakening. Yang Guoshu, a social psychologist, believes that the modernization theory distinguishes the traditional society from the modern society on a macro level, which is reflected in the individual’s tradition and modernity. Driven by the rapid changes in modern society, from tradition to modernity, individualism has been constantly publicized and collectivism has gradually declined. The traditional relational society can not only meet the needs of emotional communication, but also provide practical purposes of service and mutual benefit. The enthusiasm for modernity does not mean the traditional depression, but with the development of economy and society, the subdivision of modernization and the precision of service, the function of traditional relations has partially declined. With the improvement of social industrialization and affluence, and with the permission of people’s educational level and economic strength,More young people can live independently and choose freely, and the mode of interpersonal relationship is increasingly based on self-satisfaction. In the context of the first modernity, family relationship is given first and inevitable, while in the second modernity, family relationship is no longer a necessity, and individuals pay more attention to the realization of self-needs. Even in the post-industrial era with new institutional requirements, digitalization provides more autonomy, flexibility and mobility. Individuals do not need to live in family unity, but can rise from the necessary item of family community to the optional item. The daily care, economic support, emotional comfort and other functions undertaken by traditional interpersonal relationships are constantly replaced by social services. On the road of change, culture has been rushing from tradition to modernity, which has brought obvious individualization intention of interpersonal relationships, loose power structure of original relationships, and the demand for social relationships has been continuously melted, transferred and lost.

Keep your distance or keep in touch?

After entering industrial society and post-industrial society, human beings gradually got rid of the system and cultural situation of agricultural society, and opened up new selectivity by means of large-scale machine production. With the arrival of the fourth industrial revolution, the application of new technologies once again brought about the renewal and iteration of behavior patterns and lifestyles. Shirley Telker, a sociology professor at MIT, studies the impact of technology on society. She used to be an admirer of technology, but now she is crying out to the whole world: technology makes us more lonely! Loneliness has been listed as a serious public health problem by The Economist. Loneliness is actually people’s subjective response to the difference between "expected social relationship" and "actually felt social relationship", which is related to many negative risk factors, such as anxiety, depression, physical and mental health. Loneliness is the inner loneliness under the prosperity of the interpersonal bubble in the network. Although the network provides secondary, tertiary and all kinds of indirect contact, the younger generation is still lonely in the prosperity of the interpersonal bubble. Heidegger said that the arrival of the technological image era will make people become a kind of existence dominated by technology, lacking in poetry and belief, and people’s existence is alienated by technology, which seems to be free, but in fact it is fettered. Shirley Telker, a sociology professor at Massachusetts Institute of Technology, believes in Group Loneliness that people often feel lonely, but they are afraid of being bound by intimate relationships. Digital technology provides companionship for people, but unfortunately it is only an illusory companionship. The more you immerse yourself,The more you can’t find intimacy in reality. In reality, in 2018, the British Teresa government approved the establishment of the "Lonely Minister". In 2021, the Japanese cabinet appointed the Minister of State to solve the problem of national loneliness. Can the "Lonely Minister" fight against the loneliness of all mankind on its own? Emile Durkheim, a French sociologist, believes that modern people suffer from a "disease of infinite desire".

Keeping in touch is necessary for survival. The communitarian community analyzed in "Mobile Modernity" is "a calm island that is comfortable and at home in a rough sea where people have nowhere to hide". Today’s species are determined by natural selection, and the motivation of constructing interpersonal relationship is precisely because of its adaptability, which satisfies the essence of the struggle between groups and nature in the early stage of human society. In the Internet society, interpersonal relationship seems to be alienated, and social networking has played an alternative role. While human beings are embracing new technologies in the 21st century, technology seems to hijack people’s lives and emotions. However, interpersonal interaction is instinct. American humanistic psychologist Maslow refined the hierarchy of needs theory from seven levels to five levels, namely, physiological needs, security needs, social needs, respect needs and self-realization needs. Matthew Lieberman is an interdisciplinary professor of psychology, psychiatry and behavioral science at UCLA. When the rise of social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter triggered widespread public discussion, Lieberman was interested in using fMRI technology to explore the mystery of human "social brain". In his book "Social: Why Our Brains Are Wired to Connect", he pointed out that the dorsal frontal lobe is the center of the social brain. When people sleep, rest and think explicitly,This part of the neural network will be highly activated, which controls our social life, makes us stand by at any time, and looks at the world with the thoughts, emotions and goals of others. Psychological stimulation hypothesis puts forward that social clues in social media interaction are different from the real situation, which makes it difficult for individuals to empathize and care about the authenticity of others. Although sharing intimate information is more free and comfortable, it can only provide a short-term intimacy, which has little influence on the formation of long-term friendship and intimacy.

Social interaction is a social interaction activity between people, including dimensions, depth, breadth and frequency. Virtual social interaction is free in dimensions, wide in breadth and varied in frequency, and it can naturally interact deeply. However, compared with real social interaction, the more immersed it is, the more lonely it is, the weaker the emotional connection it establishes, the less satisfied with intimate relationship and the less intense the happiness experience. Online social interaction mostly focuses on the interaction of expression packs with no actual content, mechanical praise without thinking, general praise and empty blessing, broadcast communication and sharing of the latest developments, beautified life and faces under the filter. These weak links cannot replace the strong link of face-to-face reality. People need firm eyes when shaking hands, warm arms in fear, affectionate feelings in the eyes, deep tenderness in words, encouragement from friends when they are weak, and exhortation from their families when they are sick. The interpersonal trust, empathy, sense of gain, negotiation boundary, emotional adjustment and self-worth that interpersonal interaction can provide are difficult to achieve in online communities. At the same time, online interaction is more about weight than quality, but psychological happiness research finds that the variable related to happiness in social interaction is the quality of communication, not the number of communication. Passive interaction in the network imprisons people in a cage that looks beautiful, seemingly dazzling, but in fact it is manipulated by them. Therefore, in the end, human beings can’t leave offline communication, occasionally get together and often meet, improve their satisfaction and clearly define themselves. Moreover, the comprehensive, profound and rapid social transformation contains a high degree of uncertainty, which is more likely to cause a profound sense of impermanence and powerlessness in the mind.These need to be closely linked to form stable offline interpersonal support, break self-curling, resolve risks through active and healthy connections between people, and have the same heart.

Keeping your distance is polite social intercourse. Socrates said, "Life without introspection is not worth living." It is true that social interaction needs to be thick, but the boundaries are still becoming clearer. From the source and nature, interpersonal relationship can be divided into embedded interpersonal relationship and realized interpersonal relationship, the former is transcendental and the latter is self-induced; The former are parents and relatives, while the latter are friends and partners. It is not easy to establish high-quality interpersonal relationships, which may come from knowledge, skills and abilities. Maintaining a proper sense of boundary is actually an ability to use situational judgment to evaluate social relations, and it is also an ability to gain insight into social relations. The stronger the ability, the better the level of agreeableness and the higher the popularity. George meade, an American social psychologist, believes that human interaction is influenced by culture and its symbolic meaning. Western society is a group consciousness based on individual consciousness, while China is an individual consciousness based on group consciousness. Any mature culture will have both individual consciousness and group consciousness, but the changes and evolution of the times are dynamic rather than static, and individual consciousness and group consciousness are bound to accompany the environment and ecological system. Clear boundaries are the decency and courtesy of modern interpersonal relationships. They interfere with others too much and can’t tell the boundaries clearly. They seem to be asking for nothing in return and spare no effort. In fact, they are a manifestation of a high degree of control desire and an unconscious interference with others when crossing the border. Classical philosophy assumes that an unchanging belief, like a statue of spirit, can form people’s personality.Learning to respect interpersonal boundaries is also to avoid moral "kidnapping and control". Social principles need to make oneself comfortable and others comfortable, know how to establish personal boundaries reasonably, learn how to respect others’ boundaries, devote themselves to forming an orderly ecology in interpersonal connection, so as to achieve groups in individual association, and at the same time achieve individuals in group interaction, refuse boundless interpersonal stickiness, and learn to clear communication boundaries with wisdom. Be close without overstepping the bounds, be familiar with and have a distance. Life is like a ruler, and it should be measured.

(The author is a professor and doctoral supervisor at Zhou Enlai School of Government Administration, Nankai University)

Britain’s economic prospects are hard to say optimistic. It is difficult to cure the injury of "Brexit" in the general election.

  On October 28, pedestrians passed the European Union flag, the British flag and the placard supporting Britain’s "Brexit" outside the Parliament Building in London, England. On the same day, European Council President Tusk said on social media Twitter that the 27 member States of the European Union have agreed to the British application to postpone the "Brexit" period to January 31, 2020. Xinhua News Agency/Midland

  On December 12th, Britain will hold a general election, three years ahead of schedule. In the context of "Brexit" dragging all parties to lose patience, this election is considered to be of great significance. The Johnson administration expects the general election to be "broken", the opposition party spares no effort to win over voters, and the outside world expects the general election to bring good news to Brexit. However, the only certainty about Britain’s future is still uncertainty. Looking back: Britain has been really hurt since the referendum on "Brexit"; Looking ahead, it is difficult to cure the injury of "Brexit" in the general election.

  “‘ Brexit ’ There is still uncertainty. "

  "The result of this election is not difficult to predict. Judging from the current situation, if there is no accident, the Conservative Party can win, and of course the advantage may be weak. " Cui Hongjian, director and researcher of the European Institute of China Institute of International Studies, told this reporter, "In the eyes of the Johnson administration, early elections are ‘ Break the game ’ Means, because there is no big reshuffle in parliament, the Johnson administration’s fast ‘ Brexit ’ It can’t be achieved. At present, the opposition between public opinion is serious. He no longer expects to win the majority vote by pleasing voters, but calls on voters with a clear stand as the banner. At present, it seems that the Johnson administration’s strategy is relatively successful compared with the Labour Party’s position. "

  However, this does not mean that the prospect of "Brexit" will become clear.

  Cui Hongjian added: "This is ‘ Brexit ’ Forced election. However, unless the Conservative Party wins by an absolute majority, it can lead the parliament to pass Prime Minister Johnson’s ‘ Brexit ’ Scheme, otherwise, ‘ Brexit ’ There is still uncertainty. "

  "Johnson once said, ‘ Brexit ’ The transition period will not be extended beyond 2020, but this statement is unrealistic. We believe that the negotiations between the UK and the EU on future trade agreements may take longer and must be compromised. " Christina Huo Po, chief global strategist of Jing Shun, believes that the compromise is that Britain will either extend the "Brexit" period or leave the EU without any agreement at the end of the transition period, so there is still a possibility of "Brexit" without agreement.

  The election situation in the British general election is still changing. The latest poll conducted by polling agency ICM for Reuters shows that the support lead of British Prime Minister Johnson’s Conservative Party has narrowed compared with the opposition Labour Party. According to the results of the poll released on November 25th, the support of the Conservative Party dropped by 1 percentage point to 41%. The Labour Party rose by 2 percentage points to 34%. "This election is the first time that Britain has held an election in December since 1923, and it will be one of the most unpredictable elections in many years." This is the evaluation of this election by many British media.

  "A dangerous mess"

  According to Reuters, former British Prime Minister Tony Blair said that Britain is now a dangerous mess. Neither the Labour Party led by Corbin nor the Conservative Party led by current Prime Minister Johnson should win the parliamentary election on December 12th. He even pointed out that both parties were just peddling illusions, which was "a real mess".

  Britain has been really hurt since the referendum on Brexit was held.

  Bill Dividi, a senior economist at ABN Amro, said that the political deadlock caused by Britain’s "Brexit" has dragged down the British economy, and the damage caused is increasing and more difficult to reverse. Since the referendum, British consumption growth has increased from 2015— In 2016, the average level of 3.3% declined, and in 2017— It was only 1.7% in 2019. In 2019, the investment growth in the UK is expected to be zero, which is much lower than that in 2015— The average level of 3.0% in 2017.

  Britain’s foreign relations are also under great pressure. Recently, 15 countries, including the United States and Australia, complained that the "Brexit" deadlock affected their trade with Britain and demanded compensation from Britain and the European Union. European Council President Tusk warned that Britain can only play a global role as part of the European Union. After "Brexit", Britain will become a "second-class country" and it will be difficult to participate in the competition of big countries.

  "From an economic point of view, ‘ Brexit ’ The uncertainty has terminated the growth momentum of the British economy to some extent. Although the British economy has not experienced a cliff-like decline, the growth rate has been among the best in the EU before the referendum and almost at the bottom now. From a social point of view, instability has increased. ‘ Brexit ’ Take up a lot of resources, resulting in many major events that Britain should have done to develop the economy can not be promoted. From the perspective of international influence, ‘ Brexit ’ Let Britain have more autonomy, but lose the multiplier effect and initiative of collective bargaining in the EU. It is doubtful that Britain can’t hold a group with other European countries, and how big its voice and influence are in regional and international affairs. " Cui Hongjian said.

  "The prospect is hardly optimistic."

  Over the past three years or so, the British people have spent their time in confusion. Sadly, the road has no end in sight.

  The International Monetary Fund released the latest issue of the World Economic Outlook Report in October, which lowered the UK’s economic growth forecast from 1.3% to 1.2% this year. In fact, due to the long-delayed Brexit, a series of economic data in the UK have not performed well recently, and the physical fields such as service industry, manufacturing industry and corporate investment have declined. The analysis generally points out that even if British Prime Minister Johnson wins in the general election as he wishes, he will still face additional economic shocks including capital withdrawal and trade difficulties, and the British economic prospects are hardly optimistic. "Moreover, ‘ Brexit ’ The subsequent tariff increase directly affects people’s expectations for future life and tends to be pessimistic. " Cui Hongjian said.

  "Split" has now become a pain in Britain’s heart. "Around ‘ Brexit ’ Or ‘ Stay in Europe ’ ,‘ Hard Brexit ’ Or ‘ Soft Brexit ’ There has been a well-defined public opinion opposition in British society. " Cui Hongjian said. In addition, the problems in Scotland and Northern Ireland are not optimistic. The Scottish National Party, which is expected to win a majority in the Scottish Parliament, plans to hold a second referendum on independence in 2020. Most Scots supported staying in Europe in the 2016 referendum. Therefore, once Britain "leaves the European Union", the result of the Scottish independence referendum will be extremely pessimistic. The new version of the "Brexit" agreement wants to establish a new customs border between Northern Ireland and Great Britain, and the border issues that were blurred in the past must be clarified, which may also cause the situation in Northern Ireland to be turbulent again.

  "After the election, Britain needs to concentrate on taking measures to make up for it ‘ Brexit ’ Losses, such as introducing preferential policies and optimizing the investment environment. " Cui Hongjian said, "In diplomacy, Britain also needs to be more flexible."

  This is destined to be a long road. As the former British Prime Minister Brown quoted in the British Mirror said: "It is impossible to repair the growing division pattern in Britain by an election alone. It may take us a whole generation to restore the national life to normal."